Questions

When is the RSVP deadline?

Please RSVP as soon as possible so we can start making all of our arrangements. Please see the link HERE.

What should I wear?

The dress code is summer suave and effortlessly charming. Need some inspo? Follow this link HERE.

Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?

We would love for you to take photos and videos! However, please refrain from taking any photos during the ceremony.

Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

Mostly outdoors.

What kind of shoes should/shouldn't I wear?

There are lots of lovely grassy grounds to explore so do keep this in mind when picking your shoes.

Are there any colours that guests should avoid wearing?

Please avoid wearing white, cream or ivory.

What if I have a dietary restriction?

Please let Esmé or Harvey know if you have any dietaries.

Where should I stay?

Please go to our travel & stay page for all the details.

Should I book a taxi?

Yes Firle is remote so please book a taxi to get there and pre book a taxi to head home.

Should I get you a wedding pressie?

Your presence is the real gift, seriously, no wrapping paper required! But if you’re feeling extra generous and want to help us celebrate in style, we’ll have a registry and honeymoon fund ready next year.